Why is she acting like this???

I am currently reading a book called "THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN". This book had the most most interesting few paragraphs about why men may feel women are constantly "nagging" and/or "bitchy". Quoting from the book....

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Why is she being this way??? Because she simply wants to deflate your success? No. She is challenging you because your success doesn't mean shit to her, unless you are free and loving. And if you are free and loving, nothing she says can collapse you. She wants to feel you are uncollapsable, so she pokes you in your weak spot.

Of course she knows how much this moment of success means to you. This is precisely why she is negating it. Not because she wants to hurt you. But because she wants to feel Shiva. She wants to feel your strength. She wants to feel that your happiness is not dependent on her response, nor on you making a million dollars. She wants to feel you are a superior man.

It's a tall order to be this free, and in your more mediocre moments you will wish your woman would settle for less. But if you are a man who is living his fullest, willing to play his edge and grow through difficulties, then you will want her to test you. You may not like it. But you don't want her to settle for some bozo that depends on his woman's response to be happy. If you are aligned with your mission, you are essentially happy, even though times cycle between difficult and easy. You don't need your woman's strokes to fulfill your mission. It still feels good when she strokes you, but you don't need mommy anymore, telling you what a good boy you are. And your woman doesn't want you to need mommy. In fact, it sickens her.

If your woman is weak, she may settle for a weak man, and therefore play into your need to feel like a good boy. But if she is a good woman, a strong woman, she won't tolerate your childish needs for a pat on the head, collecting bigger toys, and being king of the mountain. A good woman will love the childlike part of you, but she wants your life to be guided by your deepest truths, not your untended childhood wounds. She wants to feel that at your core you have grown beyond the need for kudos and million-dollar toys. She wants to feel your self-generated strength of truth.

So she will test you. She might not be fully conscious of why she is doing it, but she will poke your weak spots, especially in moments of your superficial success, in order to feel your strength. If you collapse, you've flunked the test. You have let your woman deflate you. You have demonstrated your dependence on her for external validation. Even if you just made a million dollars, you are a weak man. Your woman cannot trust you fully.

If you remain full and strong, humorous and happy, your truth unperturbed by her testing, then you pass the test.

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Hey World, What am I doing here?

The purpose of the blog is going to be about discovering purpose based on observations I make about the world everyday. Hopefully by making ONE note everyday about the world around me, I will be able to discover my purpose, and help you discover yours.

Before I start, you should a little something about me. I am 24 years old. I grew up in the United States and of Indian decent. I graduated from college back in 2003 and currently live in Washington, DC working as a senior consultant for Booz Allen Hamilton. My goal is in my life is to experience the BEST the world has to offer.

I try to focus on continued improvement in the following areas:

1. Health

2. Wealth

3. Personal Growth

4. Relationships

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